Thoughts, stories and ideas.
Notes on embodied leadership for high-performing women.
From the journal.
A slow read for a settled body. New letters arrive most weeks.
My Story: Why I Do This Work
I spent twenty years over-performing in corporate. Never missed a quota. I needed to see my name in the lights like…
Tell me if this sounds familiar.
Someone makes a request. You immediately feel the other person's discomfort, expectation, or need. Your own preference, exhaustion, or objection…
You Knew...But You Didn't Speak Up
There's a moment in the meeting where you know exactly what needs to be said. The room is waiting, the…
Are You Missing the Moments That Count?
Your kid said something funny at dinner. Everyone laughed. You smiled on a half-second delay– you were still finishing a thought…
The Self-Betrayal Loop in High Performing Women
Tell me if this sounds familiar. Someone makes a request. You immediately feel the other person's discomfort, expectation, or need.…
Being Wrong Is Dangerous
You've typed the email with perfect diction. And then you proofread it five times. Ok, seven, but who's…
Every Time the Noise Stops
She took a Saturday off. Truly off — no calls, no laptop, nowhere to be. By 10am she was reorganizing her closet. By…
Let's Be Honest--The Fires Are Never Going to Stop
You are the one who always figures it out. Putting out fires is what you do. It's what you'…